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3 Ways to Control Your own Life

Updated: Mar 30, 2019

People will try to control everything that you do, from using tactics such as rumors and gossip to throw you off balance, to change your focus so that you will not be focused on the prize that you deserve. I mean, these people are looking for you to fail, they are literally probably taking bets to see who can make you crumble first. Why give them that satisfaction?


Let’s talk about these points:




1. What power are you allowing others to have over you? You may not know it, but the power that a person has over you can go unnoticed. Are you listening to the things that people tell you instead of reaching your own conclusions about yourself? Are you allowing others to tell you when you should and should not be happy?Are these people even on the same level as you? If you can answer yes to any one of these questions, then you are giving up your power.


2. How do you know when others have power over you? You know when someone has power over you because they take away the fire that you had inside of you to accomplish something. Now, all of a sudden when you tell them about something, their response kills your dream. You also start feeling guilty about the things that you want in life.


What are some ways to overcome these challenges?

Now…. Let’s focus in on how can you overcome these road blocks!


Forget the reasons it won't work, and believe the reason that it will!

Change your mindset


Remember to speak, write, and focus on positivity. This is the way that you will change your life and every aspect of it, because you are giving yourself something to look forward to.


Change your circle

The circle of friends that you had when you were a teenager are not exactly the ones that you should have around you now. I mean,, you have leveled up, have they?


Become more grounded in the word of God

God has already told you that you are more than a conqueror!!! That’s why it doesn’t matter what anyone else says or thinks. Prove them wrong by doing the opposite of what they think you cannot do. Rebuke the enemy every chance you get I mean, switch it up on the enemy!!! You have to cast down your negative thoughts and focus on what will happen rather than what will not. Stop allowing those thoughts to linger in your head because you were destined for more that they want you to see.


WHAT CHANGES WILL YOU MAKE THAT WILL HAVE AN IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE? HOW CAN I HELP YOU WITH THOSE DECISIONS? FEEL FREE TO SHARE THIS BLOG WITH YOUR BESTIES!!


FRAN

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